As you counsel the about to be wed
let it be a refresher course for you too
know to make him/her happy as you prescribe
the bedroom should not always be a prayer ground
know how to tickle her/him,
know how to flatter him/her,
make love to him/her,
stop having sex with him/her.
let them experience the art, not disgust the act.
Be naughty with him/her for you are a husband/wife too
know his/her body not only in between his/her legs
remember that he/she is human with feelings and desires too.
Be able to play with your children as you do with others
Be your child’s best friend!
then they may not live double standard lives like most of the preachers’ children we see
Take them to the beach,
window shop with them at the malls,
accompany them to school,
be their P.T.A attendee
they will not live with you forever,your tyranny will expire soon
if you aid them in seeing all facets of life as you guide,
their decision making tomorrow may be guided well.
Do your duty as a preacher at home too
but be more of a parent and partner
Everything you do to the body of Christ,
Know that you have a primary family.
They make or unmake you.
You will account for them too
Make sure it is a stress free and a relevant account that day.
So dear preacher, you are a spirit being,
do not forget you are a human being too.
THE HERALD
